Sunday, November 11, 2012

Happy Veteran's Day



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Happy Veteran’s Day to all you wonderful vets and troops out there!  I hope you have a few good stories to tell about your military days.  I salute each of you for your sacrifice, and wish you all the best.

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Charlie Dee Melton
Dad used to talk fondly about his time in the U.S. Air Force, especially in his later years.  As I remember his stories, he was 19 years old when he enlisted.  He was mad at his dad—again—and decided he wasn’t going to live at home anymore.  Those were his party years…black and white photos show him standing proudly with fellow servicemen, or holding up a bottle of liquor trudging through snow with a big grin on his face.  There were also photos of him standing near a prized car.  He was known as “Tex” or “Reb” (short for Rebel), because he had grown up in Texas, in and near a small town called Savoy where Grandpa was a carpenter and built several houses from ground up.

He talked mostly about being in Alaska.  He loved it there, and wanted to drive up and see the country one more time.  He also spoke about being in the Philippines, and how you’d know when the noobs came in:  they’d get sunburned hanging out on the beach too long and smelled like vinegar which took the sting out of the burn.  It sounded like a rite of passage there!
Betty Ann Rassbach Melton

Mom also had a story to tell about his time in the military.  She was graduating from high school and sent her senior picture to her brother, who was stationed with Dad.  Dad saw the photo and asked who she was.  Mom’s brother grinned and said it was his girlfriend.  Dad replied, “not for long!” and started writing.  Mom used to have a stack of letters bound up with a ribbon that were from him, during the next six years he was in service.  In one letter—which I had only got to steel a read from after Mom had passed away, he asked her what she thought about a house full of little brats running around.  After leaving the Air Force, he traded in his party days, settled down and married the love of his life in her hometown of Menomonie, Wisconsin, bought a house, and he worked at the local Ford Motor Company dealership, up till in the 70’s when we moved to Texas during the gas shortage.  Oh, and he got that wish about a houseful of brats…there’s six of us kids!

1960 - Betty and Chuck Melton


Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Welcome - Again - to Down Home



Sat down a bit and let my mind wander from the stuff of business.  I’ve been pulled away from blogging here.  Not sure it really matters, because I’m not sure anyone really reads it.  Business has been rather slow.  It could pick up after the election results are in and we know where the country is going—wait.  I kind of liked wandering and wasn’t to keen on getting back on that stuff.

I’m almost fifty.  Been looking for a job to pull us through winter, but I’m getting the impression no one wants to hire anyone my age.  I’ve been reminded that a job, or business doesn’t really define who I am.  And I’m the culmination of all those fifty years, and it’s been a lot of accumulating!  I guess the reminiscing brings me back to my “down home.”  You have yours, and it’s probably different.  But it has molded us.  Some of it’s family and friends, and how they are wired, some is what we value, where we’ve been, what we’ve done.  Some of it might not be good…maybe even down-right shameful or maybe unfair.  The present that has preoccupied me so much lately has been uncomfortable.  Some of my past was too.  But worrying about it has taken too much of my time, and the meanderings of my mind bring me to the conclusion that there’s a lot there that is pretty darned good, both in the present and the past.  And probably the future will be okay.  The bumps have a way of working itself out, and when the present becomes the past, from what I’ve seen, it’s a lot easier to look there and see what’s good about it.

Closing in on fifty seems to be clarifying the fact that the stuff and the jobs aren’t as important to hang on to as the people who love you—or mildly like you!—and the good…your values, your good memories.  Be your most unique and random self, and have fun.  Love God, and love your family and friends.  Breathe.  Notice.  Live.